The Portrait of a Lady: The Danish Girl

Adi’s TL;DR The curious case of Eddie Redmayne’s Oscar nominations!

Sahil’s TL;DR The path to womanhood is through silk scarves and hand gestures. I think not.

Remember Carol? We called it the ‘artsiest’ of all Oscar nominees this year. Well we hadn’t seen The Danish Girl till then, which could be a serious contender to that title! The Danish Girl is a beautifully made film about the story (somewhat) of a transgender and her struggles to become the person she always desired to be. Based in early 20th century, the film captures the life of a married couple where gender roles get complicated. So you may wonder, is it a film about transgender rights? No, not really, at least not according to us. This is a subdued, melodrama which happens to have a transgender character, but not one that forwards the narrative of transgender history and rights. Our first impression of The Danish Girl was that it’s a moving film, with top of the line performances from Eddie Redmayne and Alicia Vikander, but with an entirely simplistic, unidimensional and in many ways a stereotypical reading of gendered identities and sexual orientation.

Here’s some dope on The Danish Girl. Directed by Tom Hooper (of The King’s Speech, Les Misérables fame) with a screenplay by Lucinda Coxon, the film is based on David Ebershoff’s novel by the same name. Guess this is the year when no one wanted to waste any time with naming – aka The Martian, Steve Jobs, Spotlight, Carol, Room?! The film was first released at the Venice Film Festival and TIFF (Toronto International Film Festival) and saw a limited release in the US last November before expanding to more screens. The film saw steady box office performance, on a smaller scale budget as compared to it’s Oscar nominated peers. The Danish Girl has been well received through the awards season and has landed four Academy nominations for Best Actor, Best Supporting Actress, Best Production Design and Best Costume Design. Though with Mad Max: Fury Road in the race, the last two are kinda taken!

The highlight of The Danish Girl is undoubtedly the performances from Eddie Redmayne who plays Einar Wegener and Lili Elbe, and Alicia Vikander who plays Gerda Wegener. Eddie Redmayne’s transformation to Lili is incredibly convincing. From her mannerisms to her style, Redmayne captures the nuances with immaculate poise and grace. Vikander on the other hand is intensely evocative as Gerda. For some strange reason, Vikander has been nominated as a supporting actress by most award organizations, which honestly doesn’t make any sense. The Danish Girl is as much Gerda’s story as Lili’s. In fact, at the end of the film you know Gerda way more than Lili. We’re shown Gerda’s tragedy as a wife whose marriage is falling apart, her dilemma as an artist who doesn’t know if her muse is real or a figment of their fantasy, a woman who desires a man’s presence in her life but is bound by loyalty and perhaps mostly as a person whose loved someone, who may have never existed. We see the confusion, the stress, the struggle, the desire to make it right and to not know what right is anymore, in Vikander’s Gerda. In her we see the courage to love, to be loyal and the idea, that you could love someone for whoever they are and not only for who you want them to be. She doesn’t stop loving Einar and Lili through the course of the transition. Maybe to show, that gender is just one aspect of a person’s identity, it doesn’t change who you are entirely.

This very idea of gender being just one aspect of your being, is challenged in Lili’s desire to be nothing like Einar. Metaphorically speaking, she wants to ‘kill Einar’ and feels that to be her only way of becoming Lili. From giving up on her talent as an artist to giving up on the person she supposedly loves, to not being able to think beyond herself, Lili’s transformation is in many ways over-simplified in the narrative. As viewers we wanted to see a lot more of Lili, and to understand what goes on in her mind. Unfortunately, we’re not taken inside Lili’s mind, we’re not a witness to her sexual dilemma, to her confusion as a person about her identity and that in our opinion is the biggest flaw with The Danish Girl. We miss seeing the process of Lili’s transition, her struggles of losing the only identity she’s known thus far and stepping into the unknown. The conflict between Einar and Lili is presented in Gerda, while Lili is shown to glide into her character. There’s over-simplification every step of the way – gender roles, sexual identities, societal expectations. By eliminating social acceptance and familial pressures as factors, we’re shown a cocooned journey from Einar to Lili, where the only thing to deal with is within the confines of their home, within the confines of their relationship. This is hardly ever the story in real life and perhaps in this the film does not give the trials and tribulations of the transgender movement it’s due.

This brings us to the portrayal of gender roles and how Lili’s transformation appears to be mostly superficial, with the film’s entire focus on behavior and mannerisms, v/s internal dilemma and change. We see Einar’s fascination with stockings, silks, frocks, gestures, movements, body language which are a gamut of socially accepted ideas of being a woman. A woman is defined by her outer appearance; the clothes she wears, the way she does her hair, the makeup, the gestures, the looks, the way she walks and talks, but not the way she thinks. Women are shown to be nothing but creatures of vanity, the purpose of whose existence is to look pretty for the sake of men. Lili only speaks of clothes, silk scarves, bright lip colors, falling in love with a man, having kids – all things that match social expectations from a woman. In one telling scene, Gerda asks Lili if she misses art, and she is quick to say that was part of Einar’s life and not her’s. Gerda doesn’t mince words when she says, ‘People have been known to be both’. You can be a woman and a human being with talents. It’s not a binary! This is just one of the many ways in which socially defined gender roles from that era overpower any progressive thought in The Danish Girl. Why should someone forsake their skills and talents to be who they want to be? Why does she have to choose between being a woman or being an artist? It’s not a question the film asks, but it’s something that surely bothered us.  

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Here’s the ‘one stand out moment’ for each of us. The first one is towards the beginning of the film when Gerda is making the portrait of a man and tells him, ‘It’s hard for a man to be looked at by a woman. Women are used to it of course, but for a man to submit to a woman’s gaze. It’s unsettling although I believe there’s some pleasure to be had from it. Once you… yield!’ This is one scene where a woman’s shown to kick some serious ass! You have a man who can barely utter a word in front of this woman who doesn’t conform to any of the well known gender stereotypes and is enjoying the reversal of roles from being gazed on to being the gazer. The second one is when Einar goes to a brothel to observe a woman and tries to copy this woman’s gestures. As he starts touching himself she sees him and he immediately stops. The woman encourages him to carry on by posing like him until he’s comfortable acting out her gestures again. The scene is a powerful one where you see acceptance for Lili come from someone who also lives on the fringes of society as well as her confusion regarding her own gender. How is she supposed to behave and act when she’s really a woman inside a man’s body. It captures the dilemma of gender as assigned by society vs. gender as your biological anatomy.

Coxon apparently worked on the screenplay of The Danish Girl for ten years before she could take it to production houses and directors. It’s somewhat similar to Phyllis Nagy’s story with Carol, where again the project became one where the screenwriter was personally invested. But alas the similarity between the two ends there, while Carol is a well rounded plot, The Danish Girl does not do justice to it’s theme. It’s like a half baked cake, it had the ingredients, but not the best recipe. The film takes a lot of liberty in terms of the portrayal of the real Lili Elbe and Gerda Wegener and glosses over the hardships these two tragic painters experienced in real life. The film ends on a poetic, almost cathartic note for Gerda who gets to experience the one place Einar thought fondly of and in the visual of the flying scarf you finally see Lili set free.

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